fate~ fate~ fate~ fate! sigh... hate the four letter f word.. dont think senget..im saying FATE! Some people say we have our fate in our own hands...we determine our own fate.. but i say fate determines itself.. not us.. how can we make sure that we bump into the person we want to bump.. how can we make sure we get the modules we want to take.. how can we determine many many things.. they are all fated! pre-determined...pre-destined.. pre-allocated.. that's what i believe now.. that's what happened to me.. but i guess things happen for a purpose.. all things link to each other.. and for something to happen, something else, somewhere else must had happened.. and something somewhere will happen soon.. " you yuan wu fen" fate~ sometimes, weird things happen.. sometimes romantic things happen.. sometimes heartache happens.. sometimes.. nothing happens.. sound very "cheem" tonight.. just back from supper..not feeling sleepy at all.. but instead got me thinking about a lot of things..like how society treats women and men differently.. young ladies constantly get bombarded by family members about their other half.. once stepping into the 20s, every CNY gathering will be dreadful if you are still single and available..luckily i dont look my age..or is it unluckily? hmmm... Guys dont get such things.. Bachelors are ok.. Spinsters are no-no... Are we desperate? no.. we are just responding to societal pressure.. T_T..haha...
sometimes my friends are so cute i have to write about them..a friend's dream guy said four words to her--> "ni ye lai le" ( you also came?) .... and it can give her very fond memories.. another's dream guy asked her " eh, you stay here?".. and she can smile the whole night and maybe til tomorrow morning..because he cared to ask.. he knew she doesnt stay there.. he noticed! :D so, guys.. do say nice things to girls around you.. who knows, you might just make a girl's day wonderful... ^_^
